Showing posts with label hypnosis training. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hypnosis training. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Law Of Attraction Brought Me A Tank!

There's been a lot of talk back and forward in recent years about Law Of Attraction, what you focus on you attract, the morphogenic field and all of that good stuff.  As ever I'm only interested in what actually works.  Does it produce consistent fruitage?  Or is it just another dose of hope and hype that keeps you upbeat temporarily...?

Over my 23 years of studying personal development, I've tried anything and everything to make my life easier.  Some of it worked and made things better, other stuff took me down a blind alley, other things were profound and are now part of my staple toolkit.  But for me, and this is only MY opinion, my clients pay me to supply them with results - not fleeting improvement then getting sucked right back into the S**T again.

In 2010 I started to notice problems appearing, in several areas in my wheel of life.  So I applied all of my usual strategies and methods to better things... and nothing worked.  Despite all my best efforts, and practising what I preached, things just got worse.  Health, relationships, money, family... all started to crumble and worsen no matter what I did.

Now I don't know if you're the same as me, but I've learned that I need to get better at asking for help.  And it took me ages to summon the nerve, but finally I went in desperation to my old Coach from 4 years earlier.  And he gave me some advice.

First thing he said was that "Its OK - you're going to be alright" and I started sobbing.  Have you ever had someone say exactly the right thing to you at exactly the right time, but you didn't even know it was exactly what you needed to hear?

He then gave me some advice on what to do about it.  Now what he asked me to do had two effects on me - firstly, it sounded like precisely what I needed right now and it felt spot on, BUT secondly it went against everything I believed in.  Every cell in my body wanted to attack the problems, solve the challenges and try and our-strategise the issues.



I heard myself talking about the protest incident at Tienanmen Square - remember this scene?  It felt like I was staring right down the barrel of a tank gun, attached to a stonking huge war machine that was threatening to crush me.  And my nature is to look for its weak point, or stop the tank, or build my own tank!

My Coach suggested I sit down with my back to the tank, and meditate.  As if there was no tank there...at all... and every iota in me said "That's INSANE!"

So for 6 months we spoke on the phone every week.  And for 6 months I was at WAR.  Not on the outside mind you - not attacking the problems in my money, health and relationships - but in turmoil on the inside.  At war within myself.

Tomorrow I'll tell you what happened :-)

Thursday, July 24, 2014

How To Use NLP To Get What You Want

By Jonathan Clark


Even if you've never looked at NLP, here are 6 truths about acquiring knowledge...


Over the last 23 years I have presented 30 NLP Practitioner Courses and have certified scores of NLP Practitioners.  Since NLP came into being in the early 1970s there has been a virtual revolution in the field of learning and especially Accelerated Learning.



From Howard Gardner’s Multiple Intelligence Model specifying seven different kinds of intelligence to Tony Buzan’s work in Mind-Mapping and scores of other theorists and practitioners, we now know so much more about how to speed up the learning process.  Here are 6 of the insights I've had over the years - some of them may be useful to you...

1. If one person can do it, so can you
Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is an approach to communication, personal development, and psychotherapy created by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in California, United States in the 1970s.
Bandler and Grinder claim that the skills of exceptional people can be "modeled" using NLP methodology, then those skills can be acquired by anyone.  They also claim that the therapeutic "magic" as performed in therapy by Perls, Satir and Erikson, and by performers in any human activity, had a structure that could be learned by others.

2. You can make money from your knowledge
By the late 1970s, the human potential movement had developed into an industry and provided a market for some NLP ideas. At the center of this growth was the Esalen Institute at Big Sur, California. Perls had led numerous Gestalt therapy seminars at Esalen. Satir was an early leader and Bateson was a guest teacher.

Bandler and Grinder claimed that in addition to being a therapeutic method, NLP was also a study of communication and began marketing it as a business tool, claiming that, "if any human being can do anything, so can you." After 150 students attended a ten-day workshop in Santa Cruz, California, Bandler and Grinder gave up academic writing and produced popular books from seminar transcripts, such as Frogs into Princes, which sold more than 270,000 copies.

A community of psychotherapists and students began to form around Bandler and Grinder's initial works, leading to the growth and spread of NLP as a theory and practice. For example, Tony Robbins trained with Grinder and utilised a few ideas from NLP as part of his own self-help and motivational speaking programmes like "Unleash The Power Within" UPW which I've attended 4 times now.

3. Every skill has a structure, or recipe
According to one study, a classic interaction in NLP has several major stages including establishing rapport, gleaning information about a problem mental state and desired goals, using specific tools and techniques to make interventions, and integrating proposed changes into the client's life.  In short - get rapport, uncover the blocks, make changes, and encourage a new, generative direction.

Although the original core techniques of NLP were therapeutic in orientation their generic nature enabled them to be applied to other fields. These applications include persuasion, sales, negotiation, management training, sports, teaching, coaching, team building, and public speaking.

4. You're big enough and old enough
NLP is all about “running your own brain” and managing your own states. As a model about how we function in thinking and communicating, it’s a model that enables us to model best practices and excellence. And over the years, I have used NLP to model learning. Today we no longer have to teach people the NLP jargon at the trainings.

People can read at home. This is one of the oldest technologies for accelerating learning— reading books and listening to audios prior to coming to the training! This primes learners and participants as it prepares them for the patterns and processes. And so that’s part of my programme. We require people to read at home so that they essentially will go through the content of the training before they get to the training.

5. We can get into our best states before we start learning.
We now know that we do our best learning when we are in our best learning states—open, receptive, motivated, primed, and energetic. Instead of waiting for people to come to the training and taking several days to “pump them up” and “sell them on the training” by giving them lots of “Whys” for the value of the training— we do that before they come. Yes, it’s another revolutionary idea.

Traditional “classic” NLP teaches trainers to spend lots and lots of time presenting the why of the training before starting. And that’s a great idea if you have a room full of un-motivated people! In that case, I'd have to spend lots of time selling those who will be participants on the value of “running your own brain.” But do I have to do it that way? No way!

We can use pre-training materials and teleseminars [You can listen to one HERE] to get people into the right state from day one—from hour one. Doesn’t that make sense? It does to me. It also makes for a much, much more exciting training to start out in the first hour with a room full of exciting, passionate, and committed people.

This is also at the heart of NLP—rather than baby people as if they are not responsible for their own thinking-and-feeling states, for their own learning— we start from the position that we believe in them, believe that they are responsible for running their own brain, and that they can do that!

6. You don't want to be an "armchair magician"
That’s why our trainings are very experiential. With learners having already been through the training once (via books, and CDs) they are now ready to put the pedal to the floor and blast through the hands-on experiences to learn in practice how to actually do the processes. And that’s our focus: hands-on practice for competency.

Perhaps by using accelerated learning techniques, using the wild and incredible new technology called “reading and listening at home,” and getting to the essence of things from the beginning—then in eight eventful days ... people who didn’t have a clue about how to actually run their own brains, manage their states, cure phobias, get control over their consciousness, and communicate with more precision can begin the NLP journey.

After all, when we use these newer processes for accelerating the training of NLP, while we intensify the training, we also shorten the time. This means we can reduce the price of the training (which we have). It means participants don’t have to spend as much or take off as much time from work. You can even get trained by teleseminar, like this one HERE which reveals why I created my version of NLP called Hypno Genetics.

For me, I prefer to make NLP increasingly available to more people. The more accessible we can make it, the more people can learn the magic and power of NLP. And, we believe that the more people who can learn to run their own brains and manage their own states—the better off our world will be. And that’s part of my vision for you

An Invitation

Jonathan offers a FREE and revealing teleseminar on NLP, which included information that he prefers not to publish on a blog.   If you are seriously interested in being and having more, CLICK HERE to listen to Jonathan's "Get Everything You Want, Change Anything You Don't" teleseminar

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Sunday, May 17, 2009

Training NLP courses - partner deal, flights and videos

Hi there,

As you know the Liberator NLP course in Spain went live on
Wednesday, and its been going mental here. In fact, we got our
first booking at 6 o'clock in the morning of the launch!

I've also been getting tons of questions by email and phone, about
who to book flights through, can they bring partners just for the
holiday, and that sort of thing.

Gerry came back with a full list of airports and airlines, and the
flight details I've added to the website - including a great source of
cheap flights. There's also a new video with Gerry showing where you'd
be staying for the week. You can see that here:

http://www.releaseretreat.com

The "Can my partner come for a holiday ?" question I wanted to
answer specifically, cos I've got some great news. The answer
is...ABSOLUTELY!

We've managed to negotiate a great package for partners/spouses.
If you want to attend the Liberator course and your partner just wants to
come along for the holiday then for only £397 they get:

Complimentary access to the following facilities at Spa La Manga
Club:

· 6-lane, 25-metre indoor pool
· Comprehensive fitness centre
· Poolside saunas and steam rooms
· Locker room single-sex saunas and steam rooms
· Complimentary use of towels, robes, slippers and lockers
· Two large out-door pools with towel and bar/snack facilities

Plus they can add on the following special 80 Euros packages…

Package 1: Facial and relaxing massage. An ideal started treatment
for first-time spa guests, which will refresh and revitalise dull,
lifeless skin. Includes a skin analysis, stimulating face and soothing
full body massage.

Package 2: Relaxing hydrotherapy bath and relaxing massage. A
luxuriant soak in a deep, warming, soothing and fragrant bath, with
a gentle and relaxing massage to leave you feeling like new.

Package 3 : Body scrub and relaxing massage. A gentle, two-stage
treatment with soothing extract of camomile to moisturise and
soften dry skin and a relaxing body massage.

Package 4: Relaxing massage. An excellent massage for the most
requested spa guest. Aromatic essential oils help detoxify the body,
ease sore muscles, release tension and improve circulation, leaving
you with an incomparable sense of relaxation.

Package 5: Deep cleansing facial. Rediscover your skin’s natural
radiance with this purifying and softening facial, which includes a
gentle exfoliating peel, deep cleansing mask and skin softening hand
treatment.


Please bear in mind that this offer will close on Friday 22nd of
May because La Manga want final numbers by then. That means you have
about 5 days to decide if this is for you or not.

As I write this, everyone who has already booked are all "in". If
you haven't booked yet, there there is still room. However, the cost
of flights goes up with every day that passes, so the sooner you book
the cheaper it will be. Something to think about if you are sitting on
the fence.

Here is the booking page one more time:

http://www.releaseretreat.com

or if you prefer to speak to someone on the phone [and it might
even be ME!] then ring us on 0800 072 5792

Take care,

Jonathan

Sunday, May 03, 2009

Training NLP To Achieve Freedom & Peace


After the "If Only..." teleseminar on Thursday night, I promised I'd collate the answers to the Big 4 questions that reveal your core identity given by the folks on the call [that might include you!].

If you missed the call you can listen to, or download, the replay here:

http://instantTeleseminar.com/?eventid=7138308

Your desired outcome for your personal development i.e.why are you "into" it?

to be bullet proof
financial independence
emotional security
amazing parent
to keep me cleared and working at my best
like stoking the fire with fresh coal - constantly putting in energy
to know my purpose
To manipulate and alter reality for my benefit and others
health
wealth
knowledge
self improvement
happiness
self fulfillment

How would you feel when you got "there"?

awesome
centered
balanced
Calm
I would feel superior
Empowered
confident
at ease
happy
Accelerated career & romance
Satisfied & clear headed
full of enery full on focus
Perfect health
happiness
full of energy

How will you know you're "there"?

when i stop having to strive
when i have complete freedom over my finances, time and energy
not have to think if I can do something.
I can make it happen ....i can do that now????????
I'd have constantly replenished energy and enthusiasm for life
When I feel in control
driving a nice car up a driveway toward my nice house where i also have a therapy studio
Comfortable lifestyle
When life becomes better than I could have ever imagined.
When every aspect of my life is perfect
super woman

How would that feel?

Amazing Ive arrived
the ultimate example of living life the way my core wants to
Proud
freedom, to be what I want to be
Fantastic.

Here’s the truth. Ready?

You are addicted to your core values and you spend all day trying to get hits of them.

You will go to great lengths to get them met.

You will buy personal development books, cds and seminars to get a taste of them

And it's my intention to help you achieve ALL of the above - if you haven't joined the VIP notification list for The Liberator Programme, better hurry and click HERE